A Joyful Twist on The Five Agreements

Many of you know I have a little hobby of taking negatively stated things and re-writing them with a more positive focus. Recently, I once again found great joy and wisdom in The Five Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. The concepts are powerful, and they bring good intentions to a lot of people. But for my own practice, I felt some of the wording leaned a little negative.

So, with some meditation and a bit of playful translation, I came up with positively re-stated versions. This practice of flipping the language of teachings helps me stay rooted in joy, and I hope these inspire you too.

“Be impeccable with your words.”

Add kindness to the planet with your words. Speak with integrity. Speak with honor, love, and kindness. Honor others, and you will honor yourself. Hold yourself accountable for what you bring into being.

(You are only allowed to say nice things about yourself and others.)

“The ideas and opinions of others belong ONLY to them.”

What people say and do is a projection of their ideas, not absolute reality. Stay aware of your true self, and their words and actions become light as air.

“Trade your opinions for experiential truth.”

Your ideas come from within. They are yours, not a copy of anyone else’s. Have the courage to ask questions and express what you truly desire. Communicate clearly, directly, and kindly. Let love guide your decisions, not fear.

“Always honor yourself by doing your best.”

Be the kind of person you’d be proud to be. Hold yourself to high standards. Be kind and supportive of yourself through every effort.

(Add light to this planet by being the best “you” possible. It is your destiny.)

“Re-Learn how to listen, explore, and evolve.”

Do not cling to ideas. Value your lived experience.Question what you read and hear: is it really true? Seek other perspectives. Stay curious. Let your perspective be fluid, not rigid.

(Your current ideas do not define you. Let go, and learn something new.)

May these re-framings remind you to live with lightness, kindness, and love.

(Inspired by The Five Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz, re-framed here in my own words)